Story Gordon

5: The Stages of Living  YouTube

    

     That life progresses through distinctive periods is a common theme. Mine has traversed stages of thirteen years or so into this, the seventh. Two sources inform this view: Shakespeare and Eric Hoffer. In As You Like It, the Bard lists seven “ages”: Childhood, Schoolboy, Lover, Soldier, Justice, Retiree, Second Childishness  “Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.” Hoffer saw life evolving in stages of thirteen years. Combining these, then testing them against mine revealed a surprising correlation:

   S1: Childhood (0-13): A period of biological maturation.

   S2: Adolescence (13-26): Mental maturity. Growing up.

   S3: Individuation (26-39): Forming a self-identity.

   S4: Focusing (39-50): Narrowing my success pursuit.

   S5: Mastery (50-63): Participating as a specialist.

   S6: Elderhood (65-78): Retiring to personal pursuits.

   S7: Advocacy (78-on): Reaching a philosophical plateau.

     Those are mine. What are yours? Although I do not propose them as formulaic, the first three may align for most, albeit with various durations. This developmental sequence (biological, cognitive, self-realization) seems natural with what follows beyond stage three varying for each original. We are similar, not identical.

     For many of the successful a metamorphosis occurs near forty: Abraham Lincoln was elected to Congress, Mother Teresa began her missionary work, Bill Gates formed the Gates Foundation and I moved from the surface of technology into its depths leading to stage five at fifty as an explainer of Internet technology through seminars before retiring into stage six as I set aside technology to pursue personal interests for which I had little time earlier.

    Success in every stage seems driven by a desire to live as an original. Joseph Campbell spoke of Arthurian knights going on a “gral quest” by entering the forest at different places, then following their most authentic path. It’s an analogy that works for me. What have been your stages of living? There’s more to come.

   

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