Speaking Anxiety |
When someone says, "Public speaking is the #1 fear." I'm tempted to say, "No. It's not... It's way down the list of fears. In fact it's not a fear, a word I reserve for situations which could have a fatal outcome." Still, it's real and suffered by many.
In his book, The Human Dilemma, Rollo May identifies anxiety as a common human condition experienced every time we experience uncertainty. He also notes that, while it can be clinical, it's usually a social condition actualized by a feeling of potential failure.
In my experience there can be many cause. My partial list icludes: |
• Disinterest: Not wanting to speak. Don't! And leave them alone. • Ignorance: Speaking about what one does not know. Study! • Inexperience: Anxious about what we have not done. Do it! • Lack of preparation: A common cause. Be Prepared! • Lack of commitment: Another major cause. Do your best! • Belief in the Myth: Dismiss the myth for what it is, bogus. • Nothing to say: Intelligent fear of being the fool. Be smart! |
Note to Speakers: Public speaking anxiety is real, but it's not terminal. According to Dr. Hans Selye it has two forms: distress, the interferring negative feeling, and eustress, the positive effect of eager anticipation.
When you have something to say audiences want to hear, do it. What begins as a negative will, with experience, become a positive. The best speakers are anxious before every program, mainly eager to show their insights.
It's simple; it's not easy; it's great fun; it's worth the commitment. |
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